The Underlying Truth of Twin Flames

A reminder for those single and seeking a life partner - it is not usually beneficial to set the intention of manifesting a twin flame in the form of another person. The "experts" online who encourages others to call forth an incarnated twin flame without the appropriate cautions are doing a disservice to anyone who reads their material. Unfortunately the romantic fluff stuff about twin flames continues to circulate. Some of you met your twin flame before even knowing what the term meant as it was part of a soul contract made before you incarnated.  For others of you though, you had no such contract and now have the power and ability to forge new contracts so be sure you understand just what you are getting when you manifest a twin flame.

Your twin flame is not some fairy tale romantic hero/heroine that will automatically be your perfect life partner. If your twin flame is incarnated and you actually meet said person, this experience is to primarily accelerate your learning of hard lessons. Yes, there may be a strong sexual attraction and desire to have this person as a romantic partner with a nearly overwhelming magnetic pull that each of you will experience because you are encoded into the cellular memory of each other's DNA. But if this person is not evolving as you are, attempts to make a relationship work with this person will be a prolonged emotionally, mentally, physically, and spiritually wrenching experience. It is EXTREMELY rare for twin flames to meet who are progressing at a similar pace and able to share a life together.

Think of a yin-yang symbol. One side is essentially darkness. The other side is essentially light. One twin cannot be the darkness and the other twin the light. Each individual twin must balance the darkness and light within in order to have a non-volatile union with each other. Unlike what the "experts" online say, you doing your inner work is not going to fix your twin flame's issues. You will only cause yourself unnecessary suffering to attempt to do so. Your twin flame must do his or her individual work and have the commitment to bring this inner balance. Your ability to complete your mission for this incarnation is not dependent on your twin flame sharing the mission with you. You are not responsible for what this other person does or does not do. If your twin refuses to do his or her inner work, then your twin is toxic and destructive for you and is your teacher, not your future spouse.

Even with a soul contract, you are not stuck with this person and can choose for the contract to dissolve. Demonstrate your unconditional love for your twin flame (and demonstrate your own unconditional love of self) by allowing him or her to be a sovereign being and respect his or her life choices even if those choices are much divergent of your own. Once you release your contract with your twin flame, then you have the ability to become your own twin flame - a balance of the darkness and light - a being that truly benefits all humanity and life on the planet. And as your own twin flame, you will have the ability to attract another who is his or her own twin flame who will indeed make a wonderful life partner for you.

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