Love Delayed/Love Denied ~ A Blessing in Disguise?

Some of those who are single have been in a pattern that has repeated for months or even years. Most of the time you feel unnoticed and not amongst your people but then out of the blue, you meet someone you click with - you are surprised, relieved, and excited - only to be soon disappointed when this person disappears almost as quickly as he or she appeared in your life. You re-examine yourself wondering if there is some mental or emotional pattern you are stuck in - and for some of you there may be - but there is nothing obvious yet to be worked on. Your disappointment may turn to anger at the Universe. You endured months, years of painful clearing to ascend and your reward is to be alone? You know your karma has been erased yet it seems that the Universe is punishing you for some unknown misguided deed or mistake. You see others around you pairing off and wonder what it is you are missing. The Universe has its own agenda that often we are not conscious of but it comes from a place of neutrality. It does not judge you as worthy or unworthy. 

Often when you look back into your past, you can see that certain relationships did not work out because it was for your highest good that they did not. Being in that relationship may have brought you suffering and limitation that was not suited for the path you had chosen for yourself. In such cases, the Universe will attempt to keep that person from your path though often you may pursue the wrong person longer than for your highest good because of societal conditioning believing love can rescue and save and that true love always prevails. 

But once you have ceased pursuing the wrong one, why does the right one seem to slip away as well? Well right now most of the single women reading this are living mostly in a vibrational space where most single men are not living for extending periods of time. So even the right one may seem very interested in you but then once you are out of sight, you almost disappear entirely from their awareness. It is as if you are living in two very distant worlds. Masculine energy in both women and men is still in an unstable, volatile place for most. The good news is that this energy will stabilize and the relationships forged from two balanced beings will be lasting and supportive. The wait may be frustrating but it will be worth it. Other pairings that come together now will be unstable and will not have the endurance and connection that you seek. 

Sacred union is not a carrot being dangled by the Universe to keep the uncoupled moving forward to endure more of the uncomfortable aspects of ascension. It is very real and it is something most of you reading this have incarnated in this lifetime to experience. Sacred union is part of your spiritual and sexual evolution and destiny so be patient and allow yourself and that future partner of yours the time needed to ready for the experience. Release the feeling of lack or that love is denied to you. The Universe is abundant and there is always love available for you. Remain in a state of grace with your heart open and all will be as it should be when it is meant to. Many of you have waited long and endured much but truly it is not long now.

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